Monday, February 24, 2014

The Meaning Of Sex To The Modern Day Woman

I was having lunch with one of my friends yesterday and we somehow got on the topic of how many people we've slept with. She told me she'd slept with 20-30 people and I was so shocked by that number. Why do women feel the need to have so many sexual partners now-a-days?

I realize that men feel the need to because of their high testosterone levels, but women generally have low testosterone levels and are driven by estrogen, thus making their decision to sleep with someone a little more weighted. So why all the meaningless sex, ladies?

I've talked to countless women growing up about this issue, and the answer is really very simple; they feel pressured. When they're on a date and want a little action but don't want to go all the way, women end up feeling like there's no other option. I've been in that position before myself I know how frightening it can be to say "no" and wonder how he's going to react (sometimes violently), but you know what? It's your body and you can do what you want (and don't want) with it. If he's really into you and respects you, he won't be upset if you don't want to sleep with him right away. Everyone knows that good things come to those who wait.

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Second Class America

I normally wouldn't post something so personal and forward, but I feel that this is an important topic. 
This is how my night started: I'm slightly intoxicated, heading from a local bar to a pizza pub, I'm waiting in line with two of my close friends (both male) when a man walks in and starts to molest me in front of everyone. His arms are wrapped around my body so tight I can't move; One hand on my breast and another on my groin. His lips press against any part of skin he can find all while I'm waiting in line for a slice of pizza. No one does anything. Everyone stared at me as I looked at them in horror and tried to break free. 
The only "justice" I recieved was a box of free pizza and a shot of whiskey. 
Later on, my friend looks at me and says " I don't know why women expect equality when they get so upset about getting fondled in public. I wouldn't be upset about it".

Please hold my hair while I vomit the fires of hell.

What is wrong with men? Not all men, obviously, but at least the bunch I saw tonight. I'm not fighting for equality right now, though it's a subject of great importance, I'm simply stating that if a human is being attacked by another human you help them. Man or woman. 
I've never been so angry and so hurt... Luckily another woman stepped up and helped me. 

Monday, February 10, 2014


I've come to the conclusion that I cannot be left alone with my thoughts, even during a movie. I'm literally sitting in a comedy right now and all I can think about is how backwards it is that mankind has fabricated such a thing as, time. I was watching a scene that included a group of men getting plastered and fucking hookers, and the only thing that held my attention long enough were the series of clocks in the background. 
But seriously, the concept of time is so baffling to me. Why would anyone want such a scheduled life or to put a limit on a frame of time? Rarely does time bring positivity to someone's life. I find that it only brings stress, anxiety and depression. 
Time is a cage and we are animals.