I never thought about it much before, but it's really beautiful how certain things can hold so many memories. So small, for example, that I saw those things that you stick on the sides on corn-on-the-cob earlier on TV and it reminded me of my childhood... Of how my mom had these ones shaped like cows and pigs and I could never make up my mind so I would use one of both.
I think that's the reason why people develop such an emotional attachment to material items. It's not so much that you really love the item, but its what it means to you... What and/or who it reminds you of. I can look around my room right now and tell a story about everything I own whether its a favorite book, a scented candle or a paper fortune; They all hold memories.
I like to pride myself in knowing that I don't [usually] form attachments to a lot of things or people but I know that if I didn't have any, what kind of person would I be then? A person without memories? I think it's human nature to hold on to the past, whether we like it or not. We just have to make the choice for those memories to always be a positive influence so we can always move forward and never back.
Alexandra, I found your blog through the Couchsurfing website. These are very interesting thoughts you pose here, and you seem like a very insightful person. It IS funny how looking at certain items, hearing certain melodies, or even certain smells can creat VIVID memory flashbacks. To me, these are moments to be treasured since they are more or less, rare. You know, they say our sense of smell is most directly connected to our memories...
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